big bear and little bear have different relationships with their families

When little bear is at his family, littles is in control, and he knows what will be happening and when it will be happening, because he kindof makes sure that it happens when he wants it to! And that is ok.

Bigs isn't in control of what happens when he is at home with his family. He just kindof goes along with that happens and things happen and everyone talks about what they would like.

Both big and little think that it is the right way to be with their families, but maybe there isn't a right way to be.

(but the big bear still thinks his is the right way)

How should the bears deal with things when they are different.

I suppose that what they do is ok really. They talk about it for a while and remember that they love each other, then get together and have a snuggle.